Stop Manifesting Your Ex: Why Your Spells Aren’t Working (And Who They’re Actually Calling In)

The brutally honest witchy intervention you didn't realise you needed.

Let's be real, you've probably tried at least ONE of these in the past 6 months:

• Done a tarot reading asking "Is he thinking of me?"
• Lit a red candle at 2AM whispering, "I want xxx to come back to me"
• Stalked their instagram for 'signs from the Universe'
  

Girl don't lie, the Universe knows

If you "bring my ex back" spells aren't working, it may not be because of your manifestations skills. It could be because the Universe is literally barricading the door and yelling "GIRL STOP PLEASE. HE'S NOT FOR YOU"

Your spells are working girl, just not on him.

When you manifest from desperation, you're not attracting your ex, you're attracting someone who is:

• Equally chaotic
• Equally emotionally unavailable
• Equally inconsistent 
• Or worse...your ex in a different body (but just the worst parts of them)
  

Essentially you're summoning a Valudollar version of your ex. 

Magick amplifies energy, not your words. If your energy is giving:

• "I miss the validation
  
• "I don't want to be alone"
• "I want attention"

Then your spell will bring you exactly that. Not them but rather someone who can fill the same emotional void but only temporarily.

Another reason why your spells may not be working is because you might be manifesting crumbs when the Universe is trying to give you a full cake.

Like they're saying, "we want to give a stable, deep loving soulmate"

But this is you, "can you bring back the man who ghosted me on my birthday?"

When you ask for your ex back, you're asking the Universe for LESS than what you deserve. They're an ex for a reason girl come on. The Universe will not downgrade your timeline just because you're bored at night.

There's also the problem of you potentially ignoring the lesson your ex was supposed to teach you. Sometimes, your ex isn't a soulmate, they're a teacher. Their role in your life was to:

• trigger your healing

• show you your boundaries

• push you into your spiritual awakening

• help you level up

They're the prequel, not the main movie. Manifesting them back is like rewatching a bad season of a show and trying to convince yourself it gets better.

Your guides also play a huge part in your manifestations and they might be (aggressively) redirecting you by ensuring your spells don't work. Every time you try to call your ex back in, your guides might be hitting your manifestation with a lil "RETURN TO SENDER". Why? Because the person you’re meant to be with is:

• more stable

• more emotionally secure

• way more obsessed with you

• not triggered by your success

• actually capable of long-term relationship energy

But you can't get that person if you're still emotionally superglued to your past.

Here's a plot twist for you,

your spell might be calling YOU in. Love spells can bring you back to yourself when you think you're summoning them instead. But actually:

• you get a sudden self-love glow

• you become more attractive

• your confidence rises

• you get more romantic opportunities

• everyone suddenly wants you

Why?
Because the spell wasn’t supposed to bring him back.
It was supposed to bring YOU back.

Back to your power.
Back to your magnetism.
Back to your standards.

So...what should you do?

1. Manifest the essence, not the person
   

Instead of "I want Xavier Tan/Tiffany Ng", manifest "I want someone who shows up for me"

2. Cut the cord (spiritually and digitally)

Delete, block, unfollow.

The Universe loves clarity

3. Do a self-love spell

When you glow, better lovers appear

4. Open the road for NEW love

Let the Universe rearrange your love life according to what It thinks is right for you

5. Ask the Universe for proof that someone better is coming

It WILL send signs. It's been waiting for you to ask for these signs girl.

But here's the final truth.

If you have to manifest someone back, it means they've already left

People who are meant for you don't leave. You don't need to manifest someone who's already aligned with your destiny. You only need to manifest clarity, healing and the right timing. When you're in that frequency, love walks to you effortlessly. It doesn't limp back with excuses (like your ex)

BUT

If you're just like me (stubborn), and still only want your ex back, the Reconciliation Candle, Love Root Oil and Dark Obsession Oil are your best friends or you can also use our Reconciliation Spell Kit (thank me later).