You Keep Attracting Situationships Because You Have No Spine?

You Keep Attracting Situationships Because You Have No Spine?

If you keep attracting situationship after situationship, it's not because you're unlovable, unclear or "too much". It's because your energy is open, available and magnetic. But it's not anchored. 

Situationships aren't random. They form when there's emotional access to your aura without any energetic structure and protection. You're connecting but you're not claiming. 

Energetically, situationships happen when:

  • Your heart chakra is open but your root isn't grounded
  • You're giving intimacy without any spiritual/emotional/physical boundaries
  • You're energetically "inviting" but you're not necessarily deciding what you want right now/from them

This sends a subtle signal to them saying: "you can stay, but you don't have to choose what we are"

People feel this radiating off your aura unconsciously and respond accordingly

Situationships feel intense because they're:

  • Emotionally charged
  • Get deep very quickly
  • Hard to let go of

That's because your energetic cord to them forms before the structure can

Spiritually, it creates:

  • Energetic looping
  • Hope without direction 
  • Attachment without agreement 

Your energy is invested but the connection has no spine

If you constantly find yourself in situationships with different people, it's not a coincidence, it's the energetic template

It means your energy is: 

  • Prioritising connection over commitmnet
  • Allowing access before definition
  • Waiting to be chosen instead of choosing

The Universe will keep throwing this your way until something changes

Thankfully templates can be changed/altered

SO IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO CHANGE AND PICK CLARITY 

Path 1: Fix the pattern completely by clearing away situationship energy

This is for you if:

  • You're tired of limbo 
  • You want peace & clarity 
  • You're ready for aligned love

Firstly, grab:

  1. Write down your name and birthday on the petition paper
  2. Write your 3 intentions e.g. "I want to clear all connections that offer access to my auric field without clarity or commitment"
  3. Fold the petition paper AWAY from you 3 times
  4. Set the candle down on a FIRE-SAFE plate
  5. Put the petition paper under the candle
  6. Anoint the candle with Transformation & Banishing Oil
  7. Set your 3 intentions on the candle (you can follow the same intentions as the petition paper)
  8. Light the candle and let it burn down fully
  9. Repeat this for 7 days
  10. On the 7th day, SAFELY burn the paper with the flame of the candle

After this ritual, do NOT re-start communication with your situationship. Leave them in the past. Let all the energetic invitations clear away.

Path 2: Changing the situationship into a relationship (why do I feel like most of y'all are going to opt for this)

This is for you if:

  • There is active & ongoing communication between the 2 of you 
  • Attraction is mutual 
  • The bond between y'all exists and is acknowledged by both of y'all but lacks direction
  • You want clarity out of this relationship rather than direction

This works when theres SOME reciprocity from them

Firstly, grab: 

  1. On the petition paper, write your name and birthday
  2. Write exactly what you want. e.g. "I want this situationship to transform into a relationship"
  3. Fold the petition paper TOWARD you 3 times
  4. Set the candle down on a FIRE-SAFE plate
  5. Put the petition paper under the candle
  6. Anoint the candle with Love Root Oil, Beauty & Charm Oil, Transformation Oil & Other love-spelled oils from us
  7. Set your 3 intentions on the candle (you can follow the same intentions as the petition paper)
  8. Light the candle and let it burn down fully
  9. Repeat this for 7 days
  10. On the 7th day, SAFELY burn the paper with the flame of the candle

This ritual was force a decision to be made energetically

IT DOES NOT GUARANTEE/PROMISE A RELATIONSHIP

They will either step up or the connection will dissolve, freeing you.

HOWEVER,

the best way to shift this situationship energy away is by embodying:

  • Clear standards
  • Energetic boundaries
  • Willingness to walk away

That's when the Universe will stop sending grey-area connections

The clearer you get on what you want, the more magnetic you become.

The Universe LOVES clarity

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