A Guide to Reading Your Own Love Tarot Questions

I'm sorry you got pranked into clicking this article but you actually can't read your own love tarot questions and here's why:

As we all know, tarot is a powerful divination tool that's used for insight, guidance and self-discovery. Many tarot readers, including Bambi, don't do their own love readings because it tends to get clouded by emotion, bias and wishful thinking. 

1. Emotional Bias & Wishful Thinking

If you're too emotionally invested in a situation, it's difficult to interpret the cards objectively. Even if you say "oh I don't care about them yappa yappa" yeah yeah we all say that but we know we're emotionally invested otherwise why would you be wasting your time and energy doing a tarot reading for them. GOTCHA! Because of this, you may unconsciously see what you want to see rather than what's actually being laid out infront of you. Example, if you're hoping for a specific outcome you might misinterpret The Tower or Five of Cups as tiny problems rather than MAJOR wake-up calls.

2. Over-Reading & Confirmation Bias

If you're anxious about your relationship with someone, you might keep repeatedly pulling cards and hoping for a favourable answer. HOWEVER, this can create a cycle of you seeking confirmation rather than genuine insight which can lead to confusion and unnecessary stress.

3. Energetic Attachment to the Outcome

Your emotional connection to the reading’s outcome can influence the energy of the reading itself. Instead of allowing the cards to offer an honest message, your expectations might interfere, leading to a skewed interpretation.

4. Difficulty in Accepting Unpleasant Truths

Not all tarot readings are going to give you the answers you want to hear. It will be harder to accept truths if you're too emotionally involved or dismiss/misinterpret the message instead of truly trying to understand what it's trying to tell you.

5. The Influence of Fear & Anxiety

As mentioned before, your emotions can influence the reading. If you're worried about the answer or the situation, your anxious energy can affect the cards and lead to an inaccurate or overly negative reading. As you can already tell, this is going to lead to unnecessary doubt, stress or even manifesting problems that weren't already there to begin with.

While doing tarot readings for yourself can be useful for personal growth, love readings require you to be detached from the situation to give you an extra level of clarity which is hard to achieve on your own. Save yourself the trouble and just reach out to a tarot reader to help you with your love tarot readings.